Q: Why do you run this website/share your life this way?
A: Because it is a great way to express my creativity. It is also a great way to meet new people, have some fun and keep in touch with friends and family :)


Q: Where did your cam's go?
A: For now they are down and have been for a couple of years since now that I am in a wheelchair I do not like to be on cam anymore.


Q: I didn't get to see your cams... what were they?
A: I had 2 webcams streaming 24 7 - my life was a fishbowl.


Q: How long have you had a website / cam site?
A: I started 9 years ago with my webcam... it grew into a small website. After about 2 years it expanded, and expanded into the site you know and love today! :) Many people have contributed to it, and made it what it is today.


Q: So like... do you have cyber sex n stuff?
A: Nope, sorry I am not desperate.


Q: You shaved your head.... why?
A: My head was shaved for several years for medical reasons but I now have hair and have since October 2008 :)


Q. You shaved your head, are you a dyke/lesbian/bisexual?
A: Well... unless you are in my bed, having sex with me... I do not understand how or why my sexual preference or choices make any difference to you and your life. I however will say that YES, I am. It has nothing to do with my haircut however.


Q: So right now do you have hair or are you shaven? I don't know what is recent!
A: To see my most RECENT look check out my galleries... the newest ones are always posted on the left, OLD ones are scrolled wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy over to the right! But be careful! I am tricky and I wear wigs sometimes ;) But as of right now October 2008 I have my own hair :)


Q: Will you meet me for coffee/sex/friendship/dinner/dancing?
A: I might meet you for coffee - I take it on a per situation basis. I will never meet for sex.


Q: What sites do you hang out on! I want to talk to you!!
A: Mostly forums, health sites, blogs, live messenger and game sites now. I don't want to share where I hang out because too many freako's stalk me then. LOL Add me to msn messenger if you really want to talk but be sure to send me a message telling me who you are or I will deny your request to add me. You also have the option to email me.


Q: What do you do for work/school?
A: I do Executive Assistant / Personal Assistant/ Clerical work And PC Repair (general hardware and software). I also tinker with graphics and do voice work when asked. I will mention as an aside that I am disabled and as such the work that I do take on I do from home.


Q: What are you sick with?
A: I have an extensive DVT from below my knee to above my belly button (this was found in July of 2008) this will never resolve (dissolve ) because of how extensive it is and I am now using a wheelchair for life. I am Hetero Vleiden and so on blood thinners for life because my doctor feels I am lucky to be alive and if this happened again I would not be so lucky ( again please just google it ).I also have Crohns disease, Low immunity and Heart disease.


Q: Where do you live?
A: Edmonton, Alberta.


Q: Are you married / single / etc?
A: I am not single, sorry ;)


Q: Do you have kids?
A: I do - an awesome Son (well most of the time he is awesome anyway ;))


Q: Why can't I see you on msn / yahoo?
A: Contrary to popular belief I am not always a nice person LOL If it is on msn chances are good I have blocked you for any reason I deemed worthy.


Q: What reasons do you ban / block / ignore etc from messengers and site?
A: The biggest site/msn blocks are applied for the following reasons....
1. You were talking like a fucking loser.
2. You whipped your dick out on cam.
3. You got sexually explicit in your messages.
4. You are generally not a nice person.
5. You have offended me in some way or another.


Q: Why are you so MEAN?!
A: I am not mean... I just do not put up with perverts or stupidity. If you are either of the two I guess we just were not meant to be ;)


Q: Can I send you pictures of myself?
A: I don't base life on how others look, and I do not like getting heaps of pictures of peopel I don't know. So the answer is no.


Q: Can I ask you a question, or make a suggestion?
A: Sure... but before you ask a question check my bio and make sure I have not covered it! Suggestions are taken any time as long as they are not "GET NAKED! FUCK ME! CYBER ME! Etc" lol


Q: How often do you update your site?
A: Every month (time and new content permitting)! Check back during the first week of every month. The news page lists all my changes. My journal however is updated very often, a few times a week usually! :) Now and then I may slack or be unable to put up an update/blog update but for the most part I am pretty consistent.


Q: Can I download your pictures?
A: you can but do NOT distribute them as yours or alter them without asking me for explicit permission. Or I will hunt your ass down. Believe that. Also no hotlinking.


Q: What brand are your cams?
A: Most of my webcams are Logitech. I also have a Creative. My digital cams are a Canon Powershot A75 and a Canon Powershot SX20IS.


Q: Will you help me fix my computer?! PLEASE!?!
A: Probably not. Unless you are a REALLY GOOD FRIEND or a PAYING client. Sorry.